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![]() Life - a simple four-letter word. It’s a word easy to spell, easy to pronounce but not very easy to think about, much less to actually live through one. We often hear the expression "get a life." Sure it's easy to get one, but the real question is, what kind? What kind of life are you living, is it the kind that you want? If not, then how do acquire the kind of life that you desire? That is, if you're lucky enough to know what you want in the first place. I have been brought up in the thinking that life is special and sacred, that life shouldn’t be wasted. We must live life to the fullest, carpe diem and all that. But I'm not quite sure on how to go about doing just that. [...]
Friendships sometimes lead to adultery because in the back of someone’s mind the tantalizing idea of an affair has lingered for a long while. Such a longing for something more, a wish to be caught up in the passionate sexual encounters of earlier years, is not to be taken lightly.
More often than not, it is a sign of boredom, I frequently discover that the man is not so much bored with his wife as with himself. Life is monotonous at times. There is no escaping that fact. There is sameness to the conversations we carry on with our families, and there is a yearning for some new adventure, some hidden experience of passion and abandonment. [...] When you came into my life, I know life’s not going to be as fun as it used to be. In my mind I know I was not ready for you… I was not ready for a lifetime commitment. I didn’t know what to do… I don’t know how to tell everybody about you. I was so desperate… I decided to make a move and get rid of you… but something stopped me… I don’t know… but it was like a pat on my back. Since that day, I decided to just let you into my life.
Everyday you’re making me feel that you’re worth every sacrifice that I'll make… that you deserve to be loved. Days… weeks… months have passed [...] Hindi na iba sa akin ang mundo ng pakikipag-ligawan at pag-ibig, may ilang beses na din akong naligawan, at may ilang beses na din akong napasagot, nadaan sa mga matatamis na salita. At ano pa nga ba, ilang beses na din akong na-disillusion ng pag-ibig.
Kaya naman siguro itong mga huling panliligaw sa akin ay dinadaan ko na lang sa pagtataas ng kilay at pagbubuntong-hininga. Wala na akong pakialam, wala na akong tiwala. Malay ko ba, baka may kuto lang sya sa buhok na nagbubulong ng mga mga salitang lumalabas sa kaniyang bibig. Nandyan ang roses, ang mga hatid na para bang isa kang bulag at lampa pag tumatawid. [...] All we need is love. However, there are so many types of love, at para sa akin, the type of love that we all need to have right now is love of country, the same patriotic love na ipinakita ni Rizal, Bonifacio at Ninoy. Alam kong madaling sabihin pero mahirap gawin. Papaano ba natin kayang patunayan na mahal natin ang bayan? Hindi natin kailangang mamatay para lang ipakita ang ating pagmamahal sa bayan, ginawa na yan ng mga bayani. Pero pwede rin tayong makatulong sa bansa kahit sa maliliit na paraan. Paano? I believe na ang isa sa pinaka-obvious na paraan ay ang pagkakaroon ng disiplina sa sarili. Napaka-basic pero napakahalaga nito, hindi natin alam na ang simpleng pagsunod sa batas ay malaking epekto ang magagawa hindi lamang sa ating sarili [...]
Tatlong taon na pala tayo magkakilala, ang sarap balikan ng mga memories. Hirap talaga mainlab sa net, madami na akong experience sa gani to, naiinlab sa chat, pero hinde pa din ako nadadala. Pero yung feeling ko sa iyo, talagang kakaiba, malakas ang kutob ko, iba ka sa kanila. Tumagal din tayo ng three years, ang tawag ko na nga sa mother mo MAMA, kase I consider her na nanay ko na din, pumayag ka naman na maging close ako sa family mo kase nga bf mo nga ako e. Naaalala mo pa ba, nung iwanan mo ako kase sabi mo sobra na ang feelings mo sakin at natatakot ka na, tapos sinagot mo yung manliligaw mo dyan na taga inyo? Bumagsak ang mundo ko nuon, halos di ko alam ang gagawin ko, kulang na lang ipukpok ko ulo ko sa pader. [...]
It's been a little more than three years since we first started dating. From that time marami na kaming naranasan na hirap at ginhawa. We've always been able to get through anything as long as we're in it together.
That is, until recently. For about a couple of months now, I started being unhappy. Halos lahat ginagawa ko na para malibang ang aking isip at para maiwasan ko na baka makahalata siya sa nararamdaman kong kalungkutan sa buhay. I really do love her pero bakit ganun? Slowly naging malungkot ako? I still love her very much and I absolutely care about her, hindi ko nga ma-picture ang sarili ko sa iba, pero anong problema? [...] Sa buong buhay mo, inakala mo na bang umibig ka? O kaya naramdaman mo ang malaking kabalastugan na “pag-ibig”? Masakit diba? Halu-halong emosyon, minsan walang humpay na kaligayahan, maganda, mapagbigay, masalimuot, mahapdi, mabigat, ma...
Ang pag-ibig ay walang hanggang katanungan na walang sino man ang nakasasagot hangga’t hindi natatagpuan, na minsan kahit umiibig ka na, hindi mo pa rin mahanap ang tunay na kasagutan sa iyong nararamdaman. Pero ni minsan ba hindi sumagi sa isip mo na baka isa lang itong malaking kasinungalingan. Noon hindi ko alam kung ano ang pakiramdam ng isang taong umiibig, mahilig lang akong makinig sa mga kwentong naririnig ko at sa mga kaibigan ko. [...] So FPJ is running for president. What's your take?
Something a bit new. Here are a couple of "stream-of-consciousness" ruminations from jere and good_boy_freak. A sampler from jere's "stress stabs":
stress yan ang problema sa too much work .whew it stabs you in the back grabe kaya what ill do is try to make a cup of coffee then just pretend im cool and it will go away !yeah boy parang naging hyper tulad ni wolverine (x-men) o kaya samurai x bakit lahat may X .o di ba iniisip mo pa lang tanggal na stress mo .ah yung nga palang favorite ko pangtanggal ng stress sa hapon tanggal ang pagod namin pati na si sir kapag kwentuhan tungkol sa F4 yung meteorite garden [...] |
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