Emotions are something that everyone feels. Everyone has their own opinion about something, if not everything. The different emotions that people feel are quite interesting though. One person might feel joy when the other feels confused. One thing that I don't quite understand though, is how one can become so enraged with an emotion that it overcomes their whole personally and makes them look like an idiot to no end.

A lot of people have been recently writing and living through emotional problems as well as relationship issues. Speaking from someone who sees it as they live it, I really only have one thing to say: Jealousy is evil. Jealousy will make you do things that you never thought you would do- or see things you never thought someone else would do.

Is jealousy really only an act of accusing someone else of something that they are not doing; but you yourself are doing and hope that they aren't? If I am not doing anything wrong and you accuse me of it, is it only because YOU are doing something wrong? How insecure can you be, if that isn't the case? How insecure can two people be in a relationship? If you can't trust or don't trust, than maybe you shouldn't have a relationship at all.

It drives me crazy to keep apologizing for something I didn't do. I know other people are going through this, and experience this all of the time. My question is; what do I do? I know "they say" (whoever THEY may be) you can't change a person. Ok, so what do I do now? Do I live with the jealousy, or do I run like hell? I started noticing little things a while back, but now its crazy. HELLO! Nobody wants me?!?! There is nothing to be jealous about. I don't have guys lined around the corner waiting for me to dump you! What is your problem?

Ok, enough venting out the anger. I will get to my point. The main thing in a relationship---the thing that every relationship is based on is trust. If you don't trust, or can't be trusted then you need to rethink your priorities and what love is really about.

Understand in truth that love is not a feeling, but a state of being. You do not fall in love, you become love. And once love, you find that you cannot fall. What is Love 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 says "Love is patient love is kind. It does not envy it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. To come upon Love, one must first deny, in oneself, all that is not Love. Love is not jealousy, anger, pleasure, desire, thought, feeling, or sensation." So what is Love? Can one say what Love is, or can we come upon it through negation? For Love to be, there must be Freedom. Freedom from ones personal travail is necessary for one to come upon Love. Where there is ambition, manipulation, jealousy, greed, anger or other negatively charged emotions, Love is not. Love can only exists when there no conflict. One may say there are many kinds of Love. The Love which heals all sorrows is not emotional, sentimental, or full of desire. The Love which heals all sorrow is only when everything else isn't. Understand in truth that love is not a feeling, but a state of being. You do not fall in love, you become love. And once love, you find that you cannot fall.

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