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posted by (Aug 12, 2012 @ 5:31PM) views: 656
sabi ng pamangkin ko sa akin "tita hindi ka pa rin nakakamove on, nakaget over ka lang"

ganun ba un?its been six months, six months na rin akong single, walang jowa, walang papa, all by myself, single mom, single parent...


hindi ko na siya iniisip, ang nagpapalungkot lang sa akin, the fact na may mga anak siya, pero hindi niya ginagawa ung responsibility niya, i never asked for anything, sustento or anoman, ang sinasabi ko lang sa kanya, if he loves his daughters, gagawa siya ng paraan to see them...alam ko sa sarili ko, kulang pa ako para sa mga anak ko...they deserve more, they dont deserved to be treated like this....


any advice, will be much appreciated....
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aidle    •reply Aug 12, 2012 @ 5:36 PM
 
wag mo pagtuunan ng pansin ang taong wala namang pakialam sayo at sa anak mo. ewan pero wala ka naman magagawa talaga if ayaw niya dba? Pakita at paramdam mo sa anak mo ang pagmamahal mo, kc kung paasahin mo ang bata sa ama niyang walang pakialam eh mas masakit un kung sakali para sa anak mo
  ysapot31    •reply    Aug-12-12@6:32PM
  ysapot31    •reply    Aug-12-12@6:35PM
but dont they deserved to have a father?at least...
  aidle    •reply    Aug-12-12@7:25PM
do they need a father na wala rin naman bang pakialam sa kanila di ba mas ok na wala nalang kesa magsumiksik sila sa taong ayaw at walang pakialam sa kanila

Ang pagiging ama kasi kusang ginagampanan
JeJoTrese    •reply Aug 12, 2012 @ 5:37 PM
 
  ysapot31    •reply    Aug-12-12@6:33PM
kalibre    •reply Aug 12, 2012 @ 5:40 PM
 
Hayyy
  ysapot31    •reply    Aug-12-12@6:34PM
clare01p    •reply Aug 12, 2012 @ 6:41 PM
 
Maybe he doesnt care about his kids so its time for u to stop caring for him too, and his attitudes towards his daughters.. Ang icipin mo eh how u can fulfill ung role mo ng maayos with ur children,.,ndi dahil wlang kwenta ung ama nila, dpat wla ka na din ? Ndi pwede un ....just do ur best for them and for urself,, u have kids,, so dont worry about guys so much (for now)
  ysapot31    •reply    Aug-12-12@6:52PM
wala naman akong paki sa boys, its not my priority right now, sad lang kasi kapag naghahanap na ung mga anak mo ng tatay, doon ako talo...
xyem    •reply Aug 13, 2012 @ 9:22 AM
 
uhmm... ate .. i think we both have the same situation pero ung baby ko di nya hinahanp mxado mom nya... and i dunno masama na kung masama ako but happy ako sa gnun.. all i can say is as long n alam nila sino tatay nila... ok na un.. di ka ngkulng if lumaki man mga anak mo di ka nila maccc bakit wala dad nila or bat di nila nakikita kc dapt xa mgkusa.. gawin mo lang just do all u can para mapalki mo ng maayos sila.. wag mo na isipin ung dad ng mga ank mo isipin mo kung anu mggwa mo to make ur family normal di lng ikaw ngiisa sa mundo n ganyan
souldagger24    •reply Aug 13, 2012 @ 11:52 AM
 
magiging okay ka din gevs

di ka pa naman 40 years old. mag foforty pa lang. makakahanap ka pa ng pamalit dyan sa bwisit mong ex

if you need someone to talk to. text ka lang
  ysapot31    •reply    Aug-13-12@2:33PM
wow, ang lambing mo ata sa akin nette?nagbagong buhay ka na?

pm mo na lang number mo...:Smile:
  souldagger24    •reply    Aug-13-12@2:36PM
pangalan ko abnormal ka. pasalvage natin yan si kolokoy
  ysapot31    •reply    Aug-13-12@5:09PM


masakit ah, kaw kaya nauna....
  souldagger24    •reply    Aug-13-12@5:57PM
wak na kaw malungkot. may mga friends ka naman na magpapaalala sayo kung gano ka pa rin kaswerte dahil may mga bibo kang anak. sa kanila pa lang, bawi ka na
  ysapot31    •reply    Aug-15-12@4:01PM
sige di na ako malungot
fire23phoenix    •reply Aug 13, 2012 @ 2:40 PM
 
I think focus on yourself and to your kid, yaan mo na yun ex mo kasi its like he cant stand on his own and just so selfish not thinking he already have obligation to your kid, dont have self pitty coz u are not the only single mom in the world..if u can find a job and support your kids by all means siguro naman suportado ka ng family mo being single mom so be thankful to that...just focus on which is better for you and to your kid kasi sasama lang ang loob mo thinking things about him, para ka lang si Andy solo flight mom kasi wala namang pakialam yung tatay ng anak nya sa kanya at sa baby so why insist if u can live without him?
travelling_nomad    •reply Aug 13, 2012 @ 5:17 PM
 
ma'am, maswerte yung mga anak mo dahil sa yo kasi inaalagaan mo sila. huwag mo ng isipin yung nagpapalungkot sa yo, sabi nga happiness is a choice. and since you have kids already, better put your attention and effort in taking care of them. huwag ka ng umasa sa isang taong hindi man lang magawang magparamdam sa yo. you deserve someone better
coly_12    •reply Aug 13, 2012 @ 6:18 PM
 
n lng po kita...


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