wow.. una ako! yay!

as for my comment, i think it can work. mahirap talaga ang long distance (LDR ako ngayon) pero kung talagang may tyaga at kung may tiwala. it will work.

in my eXPerience,, long distance relationships never lasts..2 make it work? dpt both parties should cooperate and work their way ryt..kac madaming temptations while both lovers are n0t in each other's arms..kaya mag-ingat at pray alweix..!! 'di m0 maiiwasan ang trahedya kaya dpdt communicate alweiz..b/c communication is the KEY

Base on my own experience hindi nag work
Aside sa mahirap na eh MAGASTOS PA!!! ... as for me hindi kasi we lasted lang for almost 2 years. Nakakapagod din kaya ako nakipgbreak! Yung tipong hindi mo cya makasama. Isa pa andun yung mapapaisip ka kung ano giganawa nya? baka may iba na kasama (hehehe).Tapos malungkot ang tagal bago kayo magkita!Miss na miss mo na pero nasa ibang bansa pa naku! Para sken kung kayo talaga...kayo! Depends on d' pipol involve in d' relationship..

base on my experience mahirap... you have to trust each other... and be faithful sa isat isa kaya lang madaming temptation... kung mahal ninyo isat isat you have to fight for it... dapat hindi mawawala communication... kame magfo4 years na kami ng bf ko mag 7 months na kame d nagkakasama... lagi may misunderstanding, pero dapat isa magpapakumbaba... Hopefuly matagalan namin at malagpasan to... sya he feels giving up pero i told him to fight for our love..

ako eto nasa long distance pero kinakaya lahat kz mahal ko bf ko eh... hehehe
trust lang talaga...

uhmM..LDR ahh?!!naku po,, nasubukan ko nah rin yan..okei sana kung pareho nkikipagcooperate pero pag 1 lng gumagalaw,,patay nAh!! sa'kin nman ung guy ung bumitiw..atlist ndi ako..

LDR is ver very hard....but with all your love and trust.....it will work. If ever na ma tempt sya or ikaw or na inlove ka or sya sa iba it means na youre not meant for each other...may ibang para sa inyo....it means ur not for each meant 4 each other...so let go! but if u beleive that you love is more powerful than anything else....you have to hold on and never give up...
pray and believe.....HAVE FAITH!

constant communications, loyalty and trust are the best way to keep a LDR!!!

GETS MO!!!

ayy sori typo po!!!
LDR is ver very hard....but with all your love and trust.....it will work. If ever na ma tempt sya or ikaw or na inlove ka or sya sa iba it means na youre not meant for each other...may ibang para sa inyo...so let go! but if u believe that your love is more powerful than anything else....you have to hold on and never give up...
pray and believe.....HAVE FAITH

(yan ok na...hehehehe!!)

magtiwala lng yun frend mo!!!

trust n loyalty will make it work

hehe i think it works...kasi wala naman masyado pinay sa saudi e lolz ala din maganda masyado unless kung papatol siya sa babaeng camel well seriously depende naman yon e..kami nga ng husband ko e LDA din kami non..kitam ngayon e happily married na kami! siguro di lang naka pag email yong bf niya sa kanya dahil sympre dapat sa 1week niya maging masipag siya para naman di isipin ng employeer nya na hindi sila nagkamali na pinili siya diba?..baka medyo busy lang hindi naman yong pag dating don ang tratrabahuin niya e yong mag email nalang ng mag email diba?at malay mo hindi pa siya naka hanap ng COmputer shop don.sana minsan tayong mga babae isipin din natin yong kalagayan ng mga bf natin or asawa.di yong selos agad or kung ano ano nalang ang iisipin.guys trying their best naman to make us happy..kaya para sa friend mo mag antay nalang siya kamo ng panahon.

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alam mo..nde rin nagwork yan ..kc naransan ko na rin yan LDR ..hirap kc tlgng nde mo maiiwasangmag isip ng kung ano2..sabagay tama sila nasa nagmamahalan naman yan kung matatag ba sila..kung isa lng ang matatag tlgang walang patutunguhan ng relasyon nila..waaaaa..yoko na mag LDR sobrang hirap..as in..kc nde mo masabi sa kanya sa personal kung gaano mo sya kamahal..kung gaano mo sya ka miss..basta un ..mas maganda tlg kapag najan ung mahal mo sa tabi mo always..tungkol naman dun sa bf ng friend mo..na nde nagpaparamdam naku..jan kame nagkalabuan ng bf ko eh..hanggang sa magsawa ako sa kanya sa kakahintay ng tawag nya,ng email nya pero kahit ni ha,ni ho eh wala.kaya ayun inayawan ko na..kc wala ng kwenta ung relasyon ung ganun eh..bakit nyo pa ipapapatuloy di bah??

alam mo..nde rin nagwork yan ..kc naransan ko na rin yan LDR ..hirap kc tlgng nde mo maiiwasangmag isip ng kung ano2..sabagay tama sila nasa nagmamahalan naman yan kung matatag ba sila..kung isa lng ang matatag tlgang walang patutunguhan ng relasyon nila..waaaaa..yoko na mag LDR sobrang hirap..as in..kc nde mo masabi sa kanya sa personal kung gaano mo sya kamahal..kung gaano mo sya ka miss..basta un ..mas maganda tlg kapag najan ung mahal mo sa tabi mo always..tungkol naman dun sa bf ng friend mo..na nde nagpaparamdam naku..jan kame nagkalabuan ng bf ko eh..hanggang sa magsawa ako sa kanya sa kakahintay ng tawag nya,ng email nya pero kahit ni ha,ni ho eh wala.kaya ayun inayawan ko na..kc wala ng kwenta ung relasyon ung ganun eh..bakit nyo pa ipapapatuloy di bah??

alam mo..nde rin nagwork yan ..kc naransan ko na rin yan LDR ..hirap kc tlgng nde mo maiiwasangmag isip ng kung ano2..sabagay tama sila nasa nagmamahalan naman yan kung matatag ba sila..kung isa lng ang matatag tlgang walang patutunguhan ng relasyon nila..waaaaa..yoko na mag LDR sobrang hirap..as in..kc nde mo masabi sa kanya sa personal kung gaano mo sya kamahal..kung gaano mo sya ka miss..basta un ..mas maganda tlg kapag najan ung mahal mo sa tabi mo always..tungkol naman dun sa bf ng friend mo..na nde nagpaparamdam naku..jan kame nagkalabuan ng bf ko eh..hanggang sa magsawa ako sa kanya sa kakahintay ng tawag nya,ng email nya pero kahit ni ha,ni ho eh wala.kaya ayun inayawan ko na..kc wala ng kwenta ung relasyon ung ganun eh..bakit nyo pa ipapapatuloy di bah??

LDR?? of course it's dependot!

Right now, I'm 6mos away from my love. Mahirap talaga lalo na kapag nagkaroon ng misunderstanding or kahit simpleng selosan. After I went here in states, almost 2mos before kami ngkaroon ng proper communication. Iyak ako ng iyak. (in private) Specially kapag nagselos na xa ng sobra at isusuko ako.. But still we make it through.. And it's so nice to know na kami pa rin. 9 mos more bago kami magkita ulit.

Malaking bagay talaga sa LDR yung loyalty, honesty, trust and dedication kahit na magkalayo. Tsaka if anything goes out of hand like: away, selosan & etcs, dapat talaga may handang magpakumbaba at umintindi. (and these are the best time you show how you love them. To reassure na may security kayo sa isa't-isa..If it happens, remember na wag papatagalin, 2days are enough na sakitan or less.)

About sa bf mo.. di mo lang alam kung gano kana nya kamiss. Kung pwede lang nya sanang ibalik lahat, di na xa aalis ulit kya lang kaylangan.. And gumagawa yun ng paraan just to contact you.

Tips: Be open about your feelings towards him.


Wag kang susuko and be strong..Somehow serve it as a trial in your relationship but still remember, na kapag kayo, kayo talaga.

sheri

prayer is the best way - ate ko nga wala ung bf niya noon seaman but there relationship survive may temptation everywhere depende lang sa inyo both parties how to handle it unless one magloko ..as far of my experince is concern pinapray ko bf ko na mag email siya see the result it works siya pa nga un nagsosorry wala time due to his works busy but i understand..ingat lang bf ng friend mo marami manloloko sa abroad ung may asawa girl or boy nagloloko rin kahit mga babae doon na pinay na single doon may ginagawang milagro pray mo nalang di magbago bf ng friend mo.

for the meantime she has to wait..ive been there...waiting as in waiting...nakakaloka noh...
my ex bf has been away for 7 mos. now and that means wala na kami for 5 mos. already..how nice ba? sana he do his best...iba kc dito sa ibang bansa..ako kaya nag ibang bansa pra makalimot na rin at naisip ko pra din sa sarili ko. pro basta maipapayo ko lang tell her dont be a nagger at wag tamang hinala dahil malakas ang tendency...its like giving him idea. always mention the dreams they both planned and cherish...pro ang tlgang masa-sacrifice is yung intimacy ng relationship...magkalayo kc di ba?...kaya kailangan iimprove ang art of communication nila. im telling u communication is the key...samahan na rin ng dasal.

communication and trust and love
haaay naku...ang hirap nga ...

i haven't try it pero dapat may trust at assurance ka.....

sa 10 % ng relationship with this kind..i think 1% lng ang nag la last..and wow !.i really admired them..pero as far as i experienced,,its really hard.. kc sa relationship u really need a constant communication coz pag un ang nwalan..wla n rin lahat..just an advice..wag n lng i try..bigay nto n lng kay MR>DESTINY. .heheh

Making Long-Distance Relationships Work
Monday, December 5, 2005

Relationships can be complicated enough without having 300 miles, let alone, 3,000 mile separating you from your loved one. So can the ultimate way of testing your love – a long-distance relationship – be a true test of whether you should be together? If you’re in a long-distance relationship, you understand the frustrations...

If you’ve never been in one, you probably doubt the possibility of one truly succeeding. But surprisingly, if you ask couples who’ve experienced one and have come out on top, long-distance relationships can work. So how do you do it? Here are six sensible rules when it comes to making long-distance relationships work.

1. First, keep in mind that the odds of a successful long-distance relationship are more in your favor if you’ve been dating for a significant amount of time before a physical separation. You will be more secure in what you have rather than guessing whether something would be different or better if you were closer in distance. Internet dating, though sometimes different in circumstances (especially if you haven’t met the person yet), can be equally as difficult as any long-distance relationship.
2. Be on the same page with each other by communicating expectations before a distance separation. Some topics that should definitely be addressed include the way you’ll communicate (how much and when you’ll talk on the phone or see each other, etc.), whether your relationship will remain monogamous and what challenges you each expect. The bottom line is that the more prepared for the changes you are, the more likely your relationship will remain happy and healthy. Also, try to involve your partner in your day-to-day life as much as possible. Telling each other about even the most trivial parts of your day will make you both feel closer as well as ease any awkward feelings once you do see each other.

3. Build trust. It will undoubtedly be questioned or tested in a long-distance relationship, so it’s especially important that you go out of your way to make sure your partner trusts you. You can do this with thoughtful gestures and being reliable with phone calls, favors, etc. Don’t get involved in a long-distance relationship if you’ve already had questions about the other’s faithfulness, because it will only compound your insecurities.

4. Take advantage of your independence. Dating and having a serious relationship can often drain a sense of independence right out of you. Many people lose sight of their individuality once they become half of a couple and may be afraid to be more independent. Long-distance relationships can be a good thing – you’ll be forced to do and learn things on your own, which can make for a better partner. Your relationship might also develop slower, which can give you time to really get to know your partner, and not just physically. Don’t waste your life waiting by the phone or mail box either.

5. Be extra creative. So you can’t come home to each other after work everyday. What’s the next best thing? Of course, technology is always at your fingertips – the telephone, email, even webcams. But there’s also the old-fashioned way of communication – a love letter, recorded message, article clipping or a care package sent through snail mail. Or surprise them with a visit for the weekend! Watch a TV show or game together over the phone (if you’re phone bill permits) so you can feel like you’re doing something together. Br creative with expressing your love.

6. Be honest with yourself and with each other about the status of your relationship. If you feel like the distance is too much to overcome, voice your concerns. Don’t add to the difficulty of a long-distance relationship by bottling up feelings inside and letting them come out in hurtful ways like blame, anger or straying. Remember that long-distance relationships usually mean that every problem or doubt is magnified because you’ll feel a little loss of control. If uncertainty is going to plague you, don’t embark on a long-distance relationship. Also, if you’ve been with your boyfriend or girlfriend for years and see it going nowhere, don’t use a long-distance relationship as a way of putting distance between the two of you. Breaking up might be necessary.

Long-distance relationships can work – just look at military wives and husbands, or other couples who are apart due to work, school or other circumstances. You’ll be off to a strong start if you have a strong enough foundation already built before engaging in a long-distance relationship. If you’re both committed to making it work while understanding the logistics and dynamics of being apart, you’ll also be more likely to succeed. However, while in a long-distance relationship, you may also realize that your dating style is simply not cut out for this challenge, which just means you’ll be more informed for the future relationships.

ako? LDR ako ng gf ko 6 years na kami.depende lang yan basta meron good and right communication..u can do it..and depende lang yan kung sino ang bibigay sa pag lalayo ng dalawang puso..

Wow naman 2005 pa to aa.