lets face it guys, its not everyday we are gender-sensitive. sa culture natin, the women are the second in priority kahit na women are much more hardworking, achiever and intelligent than us. hardworking, kasi even in the house, its the woman who manages the house. i'm an independent guy (with a girlfriend) and managing the house is REALLY HARD. but its a wonder how girls can do it better. achiever because woman excels twice-thrice as we guys do. they have to to match the men's world. and hey, let's face it, (i'm really ok with numbers and a lot of analysis things ok, i'm a rare breed
) women, are better in the mental thing. aside from the emotional stuff, survey says, they excel in mental too.
BUT women are the kawawa all the time. that is because our culture denies their abilitiy to surpass men. pagnabuntis women worries if her man's going to marry her. pagdipinakasalan, well, sorry na lang. plus sasabihin pa ng society, kasalanan mo yan hija, di ka kasi nag-iingat. kasalanan ito ni jose rizal. he taught the women to take all the responsibility without question. remember why maria clara existed in the first place? that's the ideal woman he wanted our woman to be. tayo namang mga guys we took jose rizal too seriously.
i'm a gender advocate guy. i worked in organizations where there is a big gender issue. and its a fact that women are treated badly in this country. there are wives forced by their husbands to be prostitutes in the theater houses. ang reason, kasi babae sila. they are there to give support to the husbands! alam ko crap reasoning yan but it really exist.
there are also lovers who raped their own girlfriend! now that's a really crappy story. pero you know what guys, it's for real.
simply lang ang solution diyan. open up our minds that women plays a vital role in this society. they must be respected all the time. guys have a role in this society, but the women, put this one up inside us, they have a bigger role. that's why we need to respect them more.
thanks for enlightening my mind with your comments... Guys wouldn't be complete without us, girls. Thanks for adding pa na women plays a vital role in this society, but to my dismay only few realized that... God bless you more!