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BABAE BA ANG TALUNAN?
posted by (Sep 20, 2004 @ 12:31AM) views: 866
Sa palagay niyo tayo bang mga girls ang palaging talunan? Tayo ba parating iniiwang umiiyak? O depende sa situation? Sa tingin ko kase tayong mga girls ang palaging kawawa eh...
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dyeri    •reply Sep 20, 2004 @ 12:41 AM
 
objection! your honor....

i beg to disagree....
  margaux_0727    •reply    Sep-20-04@4:21AM
thanks sa comment
  TommyOishiSato    •reply    Sep-21-04@12:10PM
margaux,
The TRUTH about this $100 Question is this:
"LOVE IS A TWO-WAY TRAFFIC OF EMOTIONS, YOU NEED TO GIVE, YOU NEED TO RECEIVE,...BUT THE ONE WHO LOVE MOST IS THE ONE WHO WILL BE HURT MOST, THE ONE WHO LOVES LESS WILL BE HURT LESS..." the very essence of Love is not SEX...it is "UNDERSTANDING"...There is MORE in Love than you think...
  dyeri    •reply    Sep-23-04@12:11AM
very well said... "THE ONE WHO LOVE MOST IS THE ONE WHO WILL BE HURT MOST, THE ONE WHO LOVES LESS WILL BE HURT LESS", man is capable of loving with the same intensity as a woman can and i don't buy the statement na girls ang laging kawawa sa isang relasyon...
  margaux_0727    •reply    Sep-23-04@8:28PM
wwwaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!! Ang sakit malaman ng katotohanan ano? THE ONE WHO LOVE MOST IS THE ONE WHO WILL BE HURT MOST, THE ONE WHO LOVES LESS WILL BE HURT LESS... Sa tingin ko kase as of now, I'm more in Love with my bf than he is with me.. Tama po kayo dyan, LOVE IS A TWO-WAY TRAFFIC OF EMOTIONS, YOU NEED TO GIVE, YOU NEED TO RECEIVE.. But merong ibang guys kase RECEIVE LANG NG RECEIVE, pero kung mag GIVE not that satisfying.. HoHo!!! Life isn't that really fair! Btw, thanks sa comment mo! God bless...
iya    •reply Sep 20, 2004 @ 1:18 AM
 
generally...both sexes natatalo in whatever situation.

si dyeri nag-react so meaning, natatalo din ang guys. right dyeri? san ka talunan dyeri ha???
sweet_miaka_143    •reply Sep 20, 2004 @ 2:36 AM
 
cguro depende nga s sitwasyon pero kung hhyaan mo n mgppatalo k eh d talunana k nga..!!
jamsandwich    •reply Sep 20, 2004 @ 2:44 AM
 
para sa akin, kahit na anong sitwasyon, in general, babae ang talunan.
lhiez    •reply Sep 20, 2004 @ 3:04 AM
 
for me it depends upon the situation kasi may mga bagay na kahit mahal mo at di masaya sau kailangan natin palayain........ may be ang iba selfish sa love kasi kahit di na happy cge pa rin but think that!!!!!!!! this world has no perfect..... well ganun tlga may winner and loser pagdating sa love..
sup3rm4n_0321    •reply Sep 20, 2004 @ 3:24 AM
 
hmmm! cno nga ba?well tama cla depende sa sitwasyon at prehong my talo.we guys kasi minsan we dont show emotion kahit talo n prang walang nangyari pro deep insyd hurt ung ego.but we can survive nman kahit papano.ewan ko lang sa iba ha!
bhe_007    •reply Sep 20, 2004 @ 3:33 AM
 
dpende nman pow s situation kasi minsan ung ibang gurls nssktan din ang ibang boys ganun din nman ang boys although mas mdalas n gurl ung uwing talunan
margaux_0727    •reply Sep 20, 2004 @ 4:25 AM
 
thank you sa mga nag comment ha? meron kase ibang guys na pag nararamdaman na nila na super caring at super in love na yung gf nila sa kanila, eh mamimihasa na, wat i mean parang usual person na lang yung gf nila sa life nila kase sa isip nila na "ah nandyan naman parati yang gf ko eh, hinding-hindi ako iiwan nyan" so ang effect sa sobrang nafefeel nila ang security eh di binabalewala na nila ang kanilang gf... hindi na gaanong binibigyan ng pansin (care, concern and the likes..) by the way thank you pala sa mga nag comment... Kahit ano pong palagay ninyo feel free lang po na ipost ang side niyo... salamat mga kapatid....
  honeyko    •reply    Sep-20-04@9:35AM
yup. agree me sayo. kaso pag iniwan mo na sila...trust me sila ang talonan. magugulo ang mundo nila kakahabol sayo eh ala na eh. natauhan ka na. bumabalik din sa kanila ung kagaguhan nila (tama ba spelling ko? ewan!)
  margaux_0727    •reply    Sep-20-04@7:22PM
ay ganun bah yun??? hmmmm... good idea, hehehe... korek ka nga dyan sister no? Sila ang mawawalan hindi tayong mga babae.. kase the truth is mga girls talaga ang super maaruga o maalalahanin compared to guys.. oooppppsss wag kayong magalit. sa opinion ko lang yun. thanks sis!
  honeyko    •reply    Sep-21-04@10:58AM
ur welcome. im just telling the truth. sensya na sa mga guys po.
banana_demon    •reply Sep 20, 2004 @ 4:51 AM
 
girls.

lets face it guys, its not everyday we are gender-sensitive. sa culture natin, the women are the second in priority kahit na women are much more hardworking, achiever and intelligent than us. hardworking, kasi even in the house, its the woman who manages the house. i'm an independent guy (with a girlfriend) and managing the house is REALLY HARD. but its a wonder how girls can do it better. achiever because woman excels twice-thrice as we guys do. they have to to match the men's world. and hey, let's face it, (i'm really ok with numbers and a lot of analysis things ok, i'm a rare breed ) women, are better in the mental thing. aside from the emotional stuff, survey says, they excel in mental too.

BUT women are the kawawa all the time. that is because our culture denies their abilitiy to surpass men. pagnabuntis women worries if her man's going to marry her. pagdipinakasalan, well, sorry na lang. plus sasabihin pa ng society, kasalanan mo yan hija, di ka kasi nag-iingat. kasalanan ito ni jose rizal. he taught the women to take all the responsibility without question. remember why maria clara existed in the first place? that's the ideal woman he wanted our woman to be. tayo namang mga guys we took jose rizal too seriously.

i'm a gender advocate guy. i worked in organizations where there is a big gender issue. and its a fact that women are treated badly in this country. there are wives forced by their husbands to be prostitutes in the theater houses. ang reason, kasi babae sila. they are there to give support to the husbands! alam ko crap reasoning yan but it really exist.

there are also lovers who raped their own girlfriend! now that's a really crappy story. pero you know what guys, it's for real.

simply lang ang solution diyan. open up our minds that women plays a vital role in this society. they must be respected all the time. guys have a role in this society, but the women, put this one up inside us, they have a bigger role. that's why we need to respect them more.
  margaux_0727    •reply    Sep-20-04@7:31PM
thanks for enlightening my mind with your comments... Guys wouldn't be complete without us, girls. Thanks for adding pa na women plays a vital role in this society, but to my dismay only few realized that... God bless you more!
shrek    •reply Sep 20, 2004 @ 5:16 AM
 
depende sa situation, kaya girls minsan plagi ang mukhang talo kse mas emotional ang mga girls kesa sa mga boys eh,kpag girls ang nasasawi usually nd maitago pero kpag mga boys yung iba dahil sa kanilang "male ego" ika nga kaya nilang itago
  neo21    •reply    Sep-20-04@5:45AM
ang galing nmmn ni shrek.. :p :p ganun nga malamang..emotional lng kc babae kaya mukha clang kawawa d nila alam kawawa dn ung guys na kung ano ano gnigawa mapikati lng na "im strong kaya ko to..lalake ako d ako umiiyak" pero deep inside...tingin ko nga mas kawawa ung guys kc d nila mai express msyado ung feelings nila smntalang ung girls madali..db?guys??!!
  shrek    •reply    Sep-20-04@7:36AM
thank you! mga babae kse madaling umiyak ang mga lalaki kpag nakaharap sa mga babae bihira ang nagpapakita ng emotion as if parang wala lang pero pagtalikod na maglalasing na or yung iba nga nagdadrugs pa para lang makalimot pro ang mga babae usually iyak lang ng iyak
  margaux_0727    •reply    Sep-20-04@7:34PM
hmm... mas mataas nga siguro ang pride ng mga guys kaysa mga girls ano? think! think! think! most guys naman talaga di ba?
raine    •reply Sep 20, 2004 @ 5:59 AM
 
yah! it depends.its just that, mas open lang tayong mga girls when it comes to our emotions. halimbawa kapag kabebreak ng relationship. kung umiyak, sige iyak kahit saan pero kasi ang boys, mataas minsan ang pride kaya kahit sa loob-loob ay umiiyak na eh, pinipigil pa rin nila pero pagdating sa kuwarto o cr,,,huhuhu na. kaya sa ibang tao, sinasabi nilang mas talunan ang mga babae but EHEM! it depends!
  margaux_0727    •reply    Sep-20-04@7:43PM
hi sis! good morning! madalas ko nang naririnig na ang mga boys sekretong umiiyak pag for ex. nakipagbreak sa kanila ang gf nila, pero sis. may kakilala ka bah na nakaranas na nun? Kase sa akin madalas ko lang naririnig yun pero never ko pa naprove wla pa kase akong friend na guy na nagshare sa akin na totoo ngang ganun sila pag masaktan, mostly lang sa alam ko naglalasing lang... ty sa comment ha?
  shrek    •reply    Sep-21-04@11:40AM
yes ako may mga kilalang guys na hindi nahihiyang umiyak infront of his friends, chaka yung mga naglalasing tapos ng suka sabay iyak
  TommyOishiSato    •reply    Sep-24-04@11:20PM
me, i cried for my g.f. who first opened my eyes to sex, i cried for 4 months and could not sleep and eat less but i continued my studies in college and enjoy with my friends but during nightime i CRIED for her...it was SO HARD to ACCEPT...i long for her presence and warm embraces and sweet kisses...for me that time,...it's end of the world ...until 2 months before graduation i courted five girls in one blow to have a g.f. with me in the rites, i got one my fellow graduate,but we broke up after 3 months without feeling any pain anymore coz i've learned to ACCEPT, until i feel HAPPY again even without g.f...i learned how to drink and be drunk after i lost my g.f.in new place, i love her so much that i tried to kill myself with a knife...i was lucky i am ALIVE and i am here now in Tristan sharing my pains to those who still in that LEVEL of YOUTH...just ACCEPT and START again, YOUTH LIFE have so many DETOURS that sometime makes us confuse and disoriented...You need to SURVIVE all these detours and become a BETTER PRODUCTIVE PERSON...this is "SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST AND ELIMINATION OF THE UNFIT."...oki doki dok???
  margaux_0727    •reply    Sep-26-04@8:50PM
Wow!!!!!!!!!!!! Panalo ka bro! May ganyan pala na guy??? Now I know! Thanks for sharing ha? I'm so happy for you na nakamove-on ka na! Good luck na lang po! Tatah!
  raine    •reply    Sep-21-04@12:23PM
brother ko...nagaway kc cla ng gf nya. paglabas ng room niya, pula na ang mata...yon pala, umiyak :p
skye    •reply Sep 20, 2004 @ 9:31 AM
 
i beg to differ, it's all DEPENDS upon the situation. yeah, girls are so sensitive but doesn't mean we are weak...IT means, we are strong
  aprille    •reply    Sep-20-04@5:14PM
  skye    •reply    Sep-21-04@9:39AM
thanks april kaya dapat we should be proud
rayce17    •reply Sep 20, 2004 @ 2:39 PM
 
again, a comparison of differetn sexes...actually if you will really look closely sa mga nangyayaris a relationships, both sexes are just experiencing the same hurt and difficulty kapag iniwan ng mahal nila... no one is immune with love ika nga...lets not try to compare things na very broad ang saklaw...men and women are very much different, we are not created to compete with the opposite sex but rather to interact and serve each other with what we can offer...lets face it, if we feel the moment we want to love, we must prepare ourselves that sooner or later we can get hurt... thats the reality of this world...being a woman or a man doesnt save you from the hurt love can bring I'll repeat "no one is immune with love" it the very last thing that we can predict...kung ang diyos nga nagmamahal and laging nasasaktan because of the things we do but HE never complains t0 us...so sana, lets stop the comparison of both sexes coz it will never go anywhere...we're just beating around the bush...we have different personalities...being a man or a woman doesnt give enhancements or disadvantage when it comes to relationships...ok? respect is all we need...pare-pareho lang po tayong nasasaktan paminsan minsan...and again "no one is immune with love" god bless you all tristanians----

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pilipina_pero_ehem    •reply Sep 20, 2004 @ 6:10 PM
 
di naman purke kameng mga babae ang palaging iyakin it doesn't mean we are the losers.. we are that mature to show our affections and forget after atleast 3 hours na iyakan noh...minsan suicide effect pa pero acting lang yun para masaya.. the reality is that guys are the losers because they can't show their real affections coz they are afraid of what we girls would think about them.. ang totoo nyan eh pinapatay na sila ng konsensya nila...well feeling nyo lang yun noh kase kaming mga girls ang rule sa game namin eh...fool me once shame on you...fool me twice shame on me....that should make sense ok?...anyway, how do i know this crap when i dont even get involve in a relationship once?!!! tanong mo sa earth
  trixie888    •reply    Sep-20-04@6:55PM
Earthhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh... asan si Earth :-x :-x :-x
  kiks    •reply    Sep-20-04@7:28PM
trixie...
  edsel    •reply    Sep-20-04@10:24PM
tama!!! how can you make credible advice when you don't get involve in a relationship!!!!

sino si earth???


  pilipina_pero_ehem    •reply    Sep-25-04@6:46PM
sino pa edi yung katabe ni mars
  trixie888    •reply    Sep-25-04@6:50PM
Ganda mo pala earth...(este pilipina_pero_ehem pala).... Deng silip ako sa link mo kaya
  edsel    •reply    Sep-28-04@4:22PM
oo nga ano!!! minsan d ko maintindihan ang mga tao!!! literal 0 hindi, mali pa rin!!!! tsk... tsk... tsk...!!! mars, d ba disco house yun!!! hik... hiks... hiks...!!!

margaux_0727    •reply Sep 20, 2004 @ 7:30 PM
 
thanks for enlightening my mind with your comments... Guys wouldn't be complete without us, girls. Thanks for adding pa na women plays a vital role in this society, but to my dismay only few realized that... God bless you more!
margaux_0727    •reply Sep 20, 2004 @ 7:54 PM
 
Naiinis lang kase ako sa ibang mga situation, eh halimbawa bat kung ang girls ang magloko, bat parang sila na ang pinakamasamang nilalang sa mundong ito, eh kung baket pag ang lalake ang nagloko? ba't parang wala lang, parang usual lang, no big deal! It isn't that fair...Tapos meron nga iba dyan, sorry to say this, (Parental Guidance)-> ang turing sa mga babae- sex thing lang? di bah! Pag nasubukan na ang ibang lalake ang isang flavor maghahanap na naman ng isang flavor... Hahay buhay nga naman!
  neo21    •reply    Sep-21-04@5:35AM
ei me babae din n ganun..d lang poh lalake..kanya kanya pong panlasa yan..
margaux_0727    •reply Sep 20, 2004 @ 7:57 PM
 
ay correction! Pag nasubukan na NANG (hindi pala ANG) ibang lalake ang isang flavor..... thanks

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