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Main Forum - Category:Love & Intimacy
i stayed.
if you read my posts, you should know that iam fully committed to a married marine. here's the story... they were high school sweethearts.. went to the same college and then she wanted to take it to the next level. he wasn't ready that's why he joined the military, he wanted to figure things out for himself before he gets married. he got out of boot camp and she still wanted to get married. he finally agreed a week before he left to go to okinawa. they got married on a court house 3 days before he left without her. he was in okinawa for about 6 months before he deployed to Iraq. While he was there, Taylor stole $15,000 from his account and got busted for drugs. he got in so much trouble for that. he bailed her out. after he got back from deployment, he got a phone call from his commander about his wife in prison, again, for drugs, again. and she cheated on him to get more money for drugs. they started the divorce on December 2008 while Houston was on leave. he went back to okinawa. 5 months later, we met. we were inseparable... everyday we were together. eating breakfast, lunch, dinner. we were together before, DURING, and after work. did laundry, groceries, chores together. we drove everywhere, went to the beach practically everyday. had the best sex life ever. he never asked for it tho, i have to initialize sex all the time, he doesnt want me to feel obligated to have sex. he was suppose to leave okinawa on august. but he extended til october just to be with me.it was way to soon but he proposed, promising me forever. he moved to north carolina, and we're still together. i talked to his brother and he told me about his previous marriage. i called her and talked to her on facebook for a bit. they dont want anything to do with each other. and she said she is happy for me and said she is sorry for whatever this cost me. i took him back. accepted the fact that everyone has their past. i promised to love him... today and forever. i guess i should learn how to love his past, because that will always be a part of him... he's right, if he told me that he's in a middle of a divorce, i wouldnt give a damn about him and not give him a chance.... im happy i did. their court date is November 28, 2009. after that, he is mine. and i know i made the right decision. because he's worth it. _enna_ Share this post (facebook, email, twitter, etc) at pagpapalain ka ng husto.
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Good. Really happy for you, girl. Experiencing the same thing here, though. I am with a married man. Doesn't feel that good, though. Always feeling that I am always considered the second best. HAII. Btw, congratulations. You both deserve it.
"i took him back. accepted the fact that everyone has their past. i promised to love him... today and forever. i guess i should learn how to love his past, because that will always be a part of him..."
Girl, its really BEST to ACCEPT him together with his PAST .... LOVING HIM FOR WHAT HE IS AND FOR WHAT HE IS NOT ..... together with his strengths and weaknesses .... his success and failures ... BUT u dont have to LOVE his past ... all u NEED to do is to ACCEPT, UNDERSTAND then BURY everything abt the past ....so the past will NEVER be a part of ur PRESENT and FUTURE .... so it will NEVER haunt or scare u later .... * based from my experience ... ![]()
OH MY GOD. I can relate.
Lagi kong binasa blog mo. fuck, married na pala. but... HOLD ON...:: leave a comment You need to be logged-in order to post comments.Still do not have an account? Register for free
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