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I did something wrong ???
posted by (Nov 04, 2009 @ 6:58AM) views: 358
Guyzzz please help me almost three months i lied to my bf the stories goes like this:
I have a friend let just named him jake there's time that he was so really drunk at syempre ako si friend na may feelings na man sa kanya eh pinuntahan si kaibigan dahil malakas ang ulan at that time,and of course I go with jake to his house without knowing na may mangyayari sa amin nadala ako sa temptation eh...isa pa gusto ko siya pero paano ang boyfriend ko I don't want to hurt him,but how I love the guy hu's with me at that night...I was really stupid at that time coz I think Jake and I are already BF and GF but too sad after that night happened he never talk to me anymore I'm so really sad I'm hurt and a guilty too...we always see 8z other but never talk I want to slapped his face I want to talk to him personally but wala na akong lakas na loob what i did is I spend my time with my bf and so stupid to think that para mawala guilty ko I try to offer myself to him but you know what happened guyzz he never did...lalo lang tuloy ako na guilty as well as nahiya then naisip ko mahal nga niya ako until the day that nahulog din loob ko sa BF ko at ngaun nga tuloyan na akong na -nlove sa bF ko tsaka pa ang kaibigan ko na si jake nag kagusto sa akin at ngaun takot ako na baka sabihin niya sa BF ko na may nangyari sa amin.actually I already forgive him for what he did but still kinakain parin ako nang guiltness ko guyzz help me how to overcome this? Now I love my BF and I want to spend my time with him... : h m m :  i don't want to lose him : c o n f u s e d : 
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darkheartangel    •reply Nov 4, 2009 @ 7:08 AM
 
such a loser!!!!!!


: c o o l : 
  naughtyliar    •reply    Nov-4-09@7:13AM
ooppss.. la namang ganyanan at least natikman ko si friend hehe : g r i n :  gwapo naman siya isa pa masarap siya kasama sa bed ha haha : l o l :  : l o l : 
  darkheartangel    •reply    Nov-4-09@7:26AM
ganun....!!


isa pa...: l o l : 
  naughtyliar    •reply    Nov-5-09@12:52AM
: h m m :  hehe kung pwede : l o l :  : l o l :  : l o l : 
iloveyou_ikillyou    •reply Nov 4, 2009 @ 7:25 AM
 
stupid bitch
  love_suan2000    •reply    Nov-4-09@7:41AM
: c o o l k a l a n g : 
  iloveyou_ikillyou    •reply    Nov-4-09@7:42AM
cool lng ako bitch lng tlga ang otor. npka L mxdo.
  love_suan2000    •reply    Nov-4-09@7:46AM
: l o l : 


'yun na Nga eh!!!!
'and b'sides "Nasa: c h i s m i s :  daw Cxa : w i n k y : 
  iloveyou_ikillyou    •reply    Nov-4-09@7:48AM
Un n nga eh kng ako lng bf nyan mtgal ko n yng iniwan, nga2lit ang babae kpag wlang tiwala s knla ang mga BF nla pero ano yn pa ang ga2win nya tlgang d sya dpat pgkatiwalaan. sbrang kati ang kati kati prang ginagalis.: s h r u g : 
  love_suan2000    •reply    Nov-4-09@7:52AM
'yun na nga ehh!!!
'lahat kasalanan niya,kung bakit
pumupunta-punta pa cxa dun sa lalakng yun
which is frend lang niya

' : x  : x  : x  '
  iloveyou_ikillyou    •reply    Nov-4-09@7:57AM
mukang ikaw ata ang dpat mg cool : l o l : 
  naughtyliar    •reply    Nov-5-09@12:54AM
Okay !!! that guy is my bestfriend and he texted me at that night : c r y : 
  fruitsoda    •reply    Nov-4-09@8:16AM
: i a g r e e :  : l o l : 
  naughtyliar    •reply    Nov-5-09@12:52AM
Just cool me anything eh! ganito ako eh... : c h e e r : 
rc_kun    •reply Nov 4, 2009 @ 7:27 AM
 
bakit sinagot kung di mo naman pala mahal.. mga babae nga naman oh,.
  love_suan2000    •reply    Nov-4-09@7:40AM
'aNo : s a k t a n : 
  rc_kun    •reply    Nov-4-09@9:08AM
HAHAHA girl ka alam mo ibig ko sabihin, : l o l :  : l o l :  : n a u g h t y :  : n a u g h t y :  : n a u g h t y : 
  naughtyliar    •reply    Nov-5-09@12:58AM
eh!! sa ayaw ko nang mabait,tahimik at emo type ehhh gusto ko xia ma change into bad guy... : n o t w o r t h y :  : n a u g h t y : 
nyhl25    •reply Nov 4, 2009 @ 7:37 AM
 
haii nako nmn, dpt iniicp mo muna ang mga ggwin mo 100times. pero temptation yan e.. d tlga maiiwasan. hai ang hrap nan sis..
  naughtyliar    •reply    Nov-5-09@1:13AM
hirapnga ehh pero okay lang problema kongaun ehhh mag kaibigan sila dahilsyempre bestfriend ko si jake ehhh....
love_suan2000    •reply Nov 4, 2009 @ 7:39 AM
 
: g o r g e o u s :  'KuNg maibaBaLik ko lang : b u h o k : 
BrokenPromises    •reply Nov 4, 2009 @ 7:47 AM
 
Karma.
  love_suan2000    •reply    Nov-4-09@7:48AM
: l o l : 
binsoy18    •reply Nov 4, 2009 @ 8:49 AM
 
if you really love your boyfriend then just forget what happened and move on. don't let temptation build momentum on you as eventually in the end you will succumb to it.
anghellzalupa    •reply Nov 4, 2009 @ 8:53 AM
 
sabi mo you don't want to lose him so dapat ipag tapat mo bago pa kayo ikasal kasi pag nalaman nya un eh baka lalong mawala sya syo (mahal ang annulment).at pag natangap nya un mawawala na ung problema at takot mo.harapin mo ang katotohanan at ang kaparusahan sa mangyayari.pwedi syang mawala syo(bf mo) pro pwedi mo ring mapatunayan na kyong 2 talaga. at pag nagkatuluyan kyo lumayo kyo ng lugar kung saan nandoon ang friend mo na nakasex mo. unti unti mawawala na sa iksena un at pag naalala nyo na nakipag sex ka sa friend mo parang wala ng kwenta s inyo.
: w i n k : 
  souldagger24    •reply    Nov-4-09@8:56AM
changdara : ? 
  Asadong_Burger    •reply    Nov-4-09@9:02AM
magagalit sa kanya Yun..isispin mu ..may Bf xa ..nakiPAg Do sya Sa Iba ,..BUti sana kUng Wala ..baka MaIntindihan Pa ...


Ahahahayy ..


PAg Libog ang pInaiRAl ..sira ang KinaBUkasan!!
  souldagger24    •reply    Nov-4-09@9:05AM
pssst...changdara?bat ayaw mo na mamansin.

nilamon ka na ng sistema : l o l : 
aries_james    •reply Nov 4, 2009 @ 9:05 AM
 
haayyy... : e s e p : 
rc_kun    •reply Nov 4, 2009 @ 9:19 AM
 
Life is what we make it.. : s m i l e : 
arviejane88    •reply Nov 4, 2009 @ 10:18 AM
 
-.- ksalanan mu ean. pagbyaran mu.. nangati ka ngpakamot k neman jan sa FRiEND mo. neaw.. tlga nga neman oh.. wag mu idhilan eang temptation. ikaw un.. d lang man sumagi sa icp mu na my mssktan sa pagiging makati mu. : h m m :  svhin mu sa bf mu ean.. aii nako.. mga makati nga neman oh..
  souldagger24    •reply    Nov-4-09@10:23AM
wag masyadong rude. masakit sa mata. kalma lang sabihin mo ng mahinahon.parang ganito lang oh:


alam mo kasi hindi tama na gumawa ng kababalaghan kapag nakatalikod ang taong mahal mo. lalo na kapag committed ka na.


ganyan lang.


tapos walk out ka na: t a k a s : 


sabay hagis ng granada : l o l : 
  Asarako    •reply    Nov-4-09@10:40AM
: g a l e n g : 
  souldagger24    •reply    Nov-4-09@10:42AM
mongoloid, napalakpak ka na naman : l o l : 


dami mo ng tricks na nalalaman : l o l : 
anghellzalupa    •reply Nov 4, 2009 @ 10:22 AM
 
hahahha... : n o t w o r t h y :  good shot
  souldagger24    •reply    Nov-4-09@10:24AM
hoi kapag hindi ka pa nagreply dito, sayo ko ihahagis ang granada. si changdara ka ba?
d0s    •reply Nov 4, 2009 @ 10:28 AM
 
sus mahal mo lang sya nung gabi nung sympre kumati eh at haller obvious naman na kati lng din habol ng jake na un at dahil nagpakakita kna ng motibo na gusto mo nga sya he'll take advantage of that tas ngayon sasabihin mo mahal mo si bf mo kung mahal mo nga sya di ka dapat confused kung sino sa knilang 2 : h m m : 
anghellzalupa    •reply Nov 4, 2009 @ 10:31 AM
 
may matapang na dito na nag hahanap kay changdara. sino ba un nakakatakot namn
  souldagger24    •reply    Nov-4-09@10:35AM
hindi ba ikaw yun. oh sya kasi yung SN mo, naalala ko lang. may tula kasi syang ginawa na yan ang title anghel sa lupa. o sige na, hindi na ikaw kung hindi na ikaw : c o o l : 
tomorrow    •reply Nov 4, 2009 @ 10:33 AM
 
: h m m : 

magulo talaga utak ng mga tao minsan noh?

sure kang mahal mo na si BF ngayon? oh baka naman tumatakas ka lang sa feelings mo ke "friend"?

if i were you neng, maglalakas ako ng loob kausapin si friend. kung mahal mo na talaga si bf, magusap kayo ni friend na sa inyo na lang yung katangahang nagawa nyo before.
pero kung di ka naman sure sa nararamdaman mo s bf mo, hmmm, magpakatotoo ka na lang.,
in the end kasi hindi mo naman maiiwasang hindi makasakit. part ng growing up yun eh. well atleast nakasakit ka man, truth naman yung sinabi mo, kesa naman ipagpatuloy mo yung bagay na kahit ikaw sa self mo eh hindi sigurado.
Asarako    •reply Nov 4, 2009 @ 10:46 AM
 
: d e a d n a n a : 


friend sabihin mo na lang ke bf magagalits si konsensiya mo.
wildcatss69    •reply Nov 4, 2009 @ 10:47 AM
 
nangati kc ung lalaki kaya kinamot ni babae..wtf
  wildcatss69    •reply    Nov-4-09@10:58AM
balitad dapat ehh nangati c grl kinamot ni bOy.. sna isang arw wag ka basta basta pupunta sa bahay ng pusa kc isa kang daga sa paningn nia..yan 2loy kinain ka nia.. shungaerzzz bwaahahahhaa.. naku : c h e e r :  up grl
Rham    •reply Nov 4, 2009 @ 10:56 AM
 
ang gulo mo naman. walang bahong di sumusingaw. eventually lalabas yan kahit anong mangyari. better talk to your bf, accept mo na lang lahat ng sasabihin nya. ginawa mo yan eh. goodluck
DEMO    •reply Nov 4, 2009 @ 11:57 AM
 
my advise, is to keep it to yourself and never i mean never let that incident be known to him. remember this phrase "what he doesn't know, won't hurt him".

that was just a stupid one night stand so don't expect for your friend to say or do anything about it dahil para sa kanya yun lang yun. nothing more than a one night lust, about sa bf mo? kalimutan mo nalang ang nangyari and move on with your life. ask your friend to keep it to himself kung ano man ang namagitan sa inyong dalawa nung gabing yun. if you don't want to ruin your relationship do not confess your infidelity at SHUT UP.
  wace15    •reply    Nov-5-09@12:54AM
: p o p c o r n : 
  DEMO    •reply    Nov-5-09@1:13AM
wash your hands.
  naughtyliar    •reply    Nov-5-09@1:15AM
ganoon nga ehhh yon sabi ni kuya keep it your self tingin ko di na man sigurosasabihin ni jake eh... : s m i l e : 
  DEMO    •reply    Nov-5-09@1:25AM
tama, ikeep mo nalang yan and alisin mo na sa isipan mo yung nangyari. there's no point telling your guy the truth kung mawawala lang siya sayo.
  naughtyliar    •reply    Nov-5-09@1:51AM
: b l u s h :  konsabagay tama ka naman ehehhe there's no such thing to say if I know na mawala lang siya it's a one night stand and nothing more thnx ... : c h e e r :  : l u v : 
  DEMO    •reply    Nov-5-09@2:01AM
tama, tsaka me magadang outcome din ang nangyari sa inyong dalawa. that is nalaman mo na di talaga mutual ang feelings niyo, na ikaw lang ang me feelings sa kanya habang siya naman ay wala lang. kita mo naman sa reacions niya after that night di ba? so that was just a one night stand and it proves to you na wala talagang mangyayari sa feelings mo sa kanya. kaya nasagot din ang tanong mong yun sa nangyari sa inyo.
  naughtyliar    •reply    Nov-5-09@4:17AM
: c o o l :  : b l u s h :  ohh nga ehh... at least alam ko na kong saan ako dapat ngaun and about what i feel now I think mawala din to if diko na iisipin yong nangyari sa amin at balik uli...sana ganoon lang un noh?/ : ?  : g r i n : 
  DEMO    •reply    Nov-5-09@4:26AM
it will be kung yun ang gugustohin mo, pero kung babalik ka parin sa part na yun malamang magugulohan ka uli. basta isipin mo nalang kung ano ang importante at ano ang dapat.
  naughtyliar    •reply    Nov-5-09@4:29AM
: n a u g h t y :  okay hehehe salamat nang marami matagal ka na bang tristanianz???? : c o o l : 
  DEMO    •reply    Nov-5-09@4:33AM
yup, since 2004.
  naughtyliar    •reply    Nov-5-09@4:38AM
ows... kaya pala magaling kanang mag bigay nang payo ehhh hehe
  DEMO    •reply    Nov-5-09@9:52PM
di naman hehehe
chii16    •reply Nov 4, 2009 @ 1:47 PM
 
lapitan mo mga expert dyan.. sure ako marami silang mabibigay na advice : w i n k :  mga advice na di mo malaman kung tama ba or mali : r a z z :  advice na 50/50 ang chance na pede lumala or maging okey.
kung sakin man nangyari yan.. i'd confess and then i'd let him go.. pero kung gusto nya parin atu sige stay ako : r a z z :  it may take some time bago ko masabi pero irea2dy ko na sarili ko sa pedeng mangyari.
ang pede mo na lang pagpilian na path now eh yung kaya mong harapin at panindigan hanggang huli.
So yun.. Good Luck : k i s s :  keri mo yan : c h e e r : 
  wace15    •reply    Nov-5-09@12:54AM
: p o p c o r n : 
  naughtyliar    •reply    Nov-5-09@1:53AM
tingin ko si Demo ang expert haehehe : l o l : 
  chii16    •reply    Nov-5-09@1:01PM
kung yun gusto mo gawin.. go : r a z z : 
: c h e e r : 
wace15    •reply Nov 5, 2009 @ 12:54 AM
 
: p o p c o r n : 
  naughtyliar    •reply    Nov-5-09@1:53AM
wace bigay ka na man ho gut om na ako ehhh : n o t w o r t h y : 
heavensfloweronearth    •reply Nov 5, 2009 @ 1:33 AM
 
honesty is da best policy : c h e e r : 

Know what? you should tell your bf wat
happened. yeah you may suffer the consequences
but on the other hand, your bf might still forgive you if he truly loves you and kung hindi man, at least
you don't have to be afraid anymore coz you came out with the truth.
A hard lesson to learn but at least you no longer have to hide and put your mind at rest.
And hopefully you don't make the same mistake again...
  naughtyliar    •reply    Nov-5-09@4:21AM
thnx heavensfloweronearth : l u v :  : l u v :  you have a nice idea but i like the idea of DEMO hehe : n a u g h t y :  : n a u g h t y :  : n a u g h t y :  : n o t w o r t h y :  : n o t w o r t h y : 
mhelaisky    •reply Nov 5, 2009 @ 4:29 AM
 
kung mahal muh tlga c bf muh mging honest kah sknya..anuman ung maling ngwa muh dpat sbhin muh & zna mging aral nah sauh ung nangyari.. : n a u g h t y :  : s m i l e : 
anonsenselove    •reply Nov 5, 2009 @ 6:55 AM
 
bad girl.. : h m m : 
but i agree to demo
but it's up to you what do you want to do..
i saw here in your post that their advices were different but i agree to demo
ewanskie    •reply Nov 5, 2009 @ 9:56 PM
 
: t a k a s : 
estranghera    •reply Nov 5, 2009 @ 10:03 PM
 
"THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE"
kung mahal ka niya talaga, maiintindihan nya.
not unless he is the type of person who values dignity too much. at the end of the day, the blame will be on you because of this one stupid night you have had shared with this "jake."
good luck!
  naughtyliar    •reply    Nov-7-09@3:25AM
hahay hirap guyzzz anu dapat ko gawin if one of my bf friend read this post??hahayyyy : ?  : ?  : c r y :  : c r y : 
chesca_09    •reply Nov 7, 2009 @ 4:04 AM
 
if i were u, sasabihin q na sa bf ko ang totoo. baka kc maunahan ka pa nung frend mu, sasama lang loob sau nung bf mu.. basta galingan mu na lang pg explain sa kanya.. Gud luck : s m i l e : 

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