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high pride.
posted by (May 30, 2008 @ 7:30AM) views: 3874
i felt bad because no matter what i do, he won't forgive me..

around 6pm this evening, my 'kada and i decided to have a get-together at our friend's house. so, i went to jhang's place and found out that there were only five of us present. they asked me, "asan si paul?". i answered, "we're not yet friends. remember?".. they kept on texting my guy friend asking him to go to where we are. one of his replies was: "am i still your friend?".. ouch. it hurts like hell.

i said "sorry" to him a hundred times and yet he hasn't forgiven me. grabhe talaga ang pride ng mga boys. i even went to his dad's shop this night and asked him to forgive me. ayun, wala pa ring nangyari..



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REyNa_Ng_SaBLAy    •reply May 30, 2008 @ 7:31 AM
 
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@7:36AM
thanks..
pAre08    •reply May 30, 2008 @ 7:32 AM
 
alam mo.. wala ka namang magagawa kung ayaw kang pang patawarin.

hindi naman ganun kadali magpatawad ano!
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@7:38AM
2 months na kaming hindi nagkikita at nag-uusap.. he's making things hard for me.
  pAre08    •reply    May-30-08@7:39AM
ano ba kayo? just friends? or more than friends?

at ano ba kse nagawa mo?
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@7:52AM
we're just friends. kabarkada..

i just asked him if his girl was pregnant. then, he got mad. tama ba yun? diba, hindi?
  pAre08    •reply    May-30-08@7:58AM
baka naman na-offend sa tanong mo.

kse pwede nman ding iniisip nia na ang pagkakakilala mo sknya e yung tipo ng tao na nakaka-disgrasya(nakakabuntis)... yung ganun.

pero madali lang naman sagutin ang tanong mo.. yes or no lang naman ang isasagot nia. maybe he's guilty.. or maybe he isn't.
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@8:02AM
or maybe, he acted immature. tama bang magalit siya with my question? hay.
  pAre08    •reply    May-31-08@6:45AM
immature.. mature.. who are we to say that a person is as such?

we cannot question him why he reacted that way.. why? kse kung pwde xang kwestyunin.. e di ikaw nagawa mo na yun! or maybe you haven't tried.

ang isang tao kse hindi mo naman masisisi kung ano ang maging reaction nia.. dahil di naman lahat ng tao ay pare-pareho. so i think we must first know why he reacted that way.

pangit namang mag-judge na lang tayo na exaggerated ang reaksyon nia, there might be a valid reason as to why he reacted that way.
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-31-08@8:05AM
we've been friends for a long time. i think, i have the right to say he's immature in some ways.

yes, i asked him why he reacted that way and he can't even give me a valid reason why he did so..

hay.
  pAre08    •reply    Jun-1-08@4:22AM
alam mo wala yan sa haba ng panahon na magkakilala kayo.. and if you really know him that well just as what you're saying.. bakit ka pa nako-confuse sknya?



siguro nga wala.. pero paano kung meron? hindi naman xa siguro obligadong magbigay sayo ng kanyang explanation.
exodus_26    •reply May 30, 2008 @ 7:34 AM
 
depende cgro yan s ksalanan mo. hyaan mo n lng sya muna at cgrdo s mhabang panahon ay huhupa n rin ang knyang high prides
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@7:40AM
it would be fine if he'll not talk to me for a year or decade. i don't need the drama he brings..

what's bothering me is that he also ignored the whole barkada where in fact, i was the only one who offended him. sad.
  exodus_26    •reply    May-30-08@7:44AM
sori pero sad to say wla k ng mga2wa dun. nsa knya n un kng gaano nya ktgal kikimkimin ung glit nya sau.
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@7:55AM
wala na nga. nasa kanya na yun..
  exodus_26    •reply    May-30-08@7:58AM
akoy nki2ramay sa iyong klungkutan
  bloody_hell    •reply    May-30-08@7:46AM
LOL... if that's the case then let him be.
  exodus_26    •reply    May-30-08@7:49AM
oh oh oh dhan dhan mtamaan ako nyan


whoooooppppp buti n lng mgling ako mgMATRIX
  bloody_hell    •reply    May-30-08@7:52AM
eto... ilagan mo rin :]]
  exodus_26    •reply    May-30-08@7:56AM
waaahhh stampede
  bloody_hell    •reply    May-30-08@7:57AM
  bloody_hell    •reply    May-30-08@7:57AM
toink
  exodus_26    •reply    May-30-08@7:59AM
ayan nipatay mo ko hala buhayin mo ko
  bloody_hell    •reply    May-30-08@8:01AM
yan... mabubuhay ka sana sa ingay
  exodus_26    •reply    May-30-08@8:16AM
ay ang swit lng
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@8:02AM
peacemaker_13    •reply May 30, 2008 @ 7:36 AM
 




makerô
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@7:41AM
peace.
pogi_points    •reply May 30, 2008 @ 7:37 AM
 
awtz!!!
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@7:42AM
christian0_0    •reply May 30, 2008 @ 7:37 AM
 
ano ba kasi ginawa mo 0_0
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@7:42AM
i just asked him if his girl was pregnant. then, he got mad. tama ba yun? diba, hindi?
  mj_sw8    •reply    May-30-08@7:50AM
bka nga totoong buntis sa takot na magdilang anghel ka, ayun nagalit
  christian0_0    •reply    May-30-08@7:52AM
ah cguro sensitive lang po sya kaya nagtampo
but hindi naman tama na pahabain pa nya ung tampo nya at umabot ng 2months e hinfi naman ganun kagrabe ung offense mo

hmmmm maybe marame lang syang problems ngayon tpos gs2 muna nya mapagisa 0_0
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@7:57AM
yeah. hindi nga grabhe. i was hurt because i didn't expect na dahil lang sa isang question, masisira yung friendship namin. stupid.
  christian0_0    •reply    May-30-08@8:04AM
yaan mo na un0_0
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@8:06AM
oo nga. i will.
silentheart08    •reply May 30, 2008 @ 7:41 AM
 
pride pa pride pa sya buti nga nagsosorry pa e
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@7:43AM
kaya nga. sad talaga..
  silentheart08    •reply    May-30-08@7:47AM
yaan mo na. galit pa kasi e. pag nalipasan ng galit un kakausapin/papansinin ka din nun
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@8:03AM
yeah. but, how long should i wait?
sugar_plum    •reply May 30, 2008 @ 7:41 AM
 
ano mo ba sya?
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@7:44AM
close friend. kabarkada..
  sugar_plum    •reply    May-30-08@7:47AM
pabayaan mo na lang muna. nasaktan pride nya eh. saka nakapag-sorry ka na naman. nagawa mo na lahat. so nasa sa kanya na yun kung patatawarin ka nya.
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@7:51AM
you have your point. thanks.
mj_sw8    •reply May 30, 2008 @ 7:41 AM
 
hindi nman sa mataas ang pride ng mga boys, mas mataas pa nga yung sa ating mga gurls. depende kasi kung ano yung nagawa mo sa kanya. siguro, sobrang nasaktan xa sa gninawa mo kaya nagkaganun. juz dnt give up sa paghingi nang sori mo kc kasalanan mo nman yun eh..
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@7:46AM
you know that people get tired of doing the same thing over and over again. especially if nothing good comes out of it. sad talaga. i mean, the reason was so mababaw..
  mj_sw8    •reply    May-30-08@7:53AM
eh di wag ka nang magsori
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@7:54AM
haha. yeah, sooner. he'll never hear me say "sorry" again..
bloody_hell    •reply May 30, 2008 @ 7:42 AM
 
awww...
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@8:00AM
thanks.
pogi_points    •reply May 30, 2008 @ 7:43 AM
 
yung fwends ku nga c dennis nag break cla nag gf nya dahil lng s alang kakwenta kwentang bagay ..tas cnumbatan kagad ng gf nya ala n mng ibedensya yun nagalit ng husto c dennis kaya kahit anung gawin ng babae di p rin sya mapata matawad!!!
  pogi_points    •reply    May-30-08@7:46AM
kaya ayaw hiwalayan ng gf nya ung fwends ko kasi c dennis kasi nagpabago s girl!!!!nung una mataba ung babae at nung naging mag syota cla naging wow loking wow na!!!!
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@7:56AM
hay. sometimes kasi, guys act as if they know everything which they really don't. peace guys.
  pogi_points    •reply    May-30-08@8:01AM
gawa nung pride ng fwend ko!!!!and sometyms nagiging selfish kami by which we choice da wrong path at kung may problema sana daanin n lng sa mapayapang usapan!!!!gudnyt!!!
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@8:05AM
sana nga. i wish them the best.
okay, good night din.
death_godess    •reply May 30, 2008 @ 7:46 AM
 
haiz,
duh' pride pride,
di nmn maganda yung me pride e,
who ever said na pride is a good thing to own?

haiz, d nmn a
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@7:50AM
pride is sometimes good. diba, pride is a high regard of one's ownself.. its just that, too much of it is bad. i mean, REALLY BAD.
  bloody_hell    •reply    May-30-08@7:53AM
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@7:57AM
thanks
trishamea    •reply May 30, 2008 @ 7:49 AM
 
ano po ba ung kasalanan mo?
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@7:53AM
i just asked him if his girl was pregnant. then, he got mad. tama ba yun? diba, hindi?
precious_joy05    •reply May 30, 2008 @ 7:50 AM
 
bka nsaktan ng sobra.
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@7:59AM
siguro nga.
1438    •reply May 30, 2008 @ 7:54 AM
 
I think give him to tym to forgive you cause is hard to forgive anyone. Ano ba talaga nagawa mo na nagalit cya ng todo sayo. When it comes to boys pride mahirap yan but still try corner him to talk to you and ask why hindi ka parin pinapatawad.......
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@7:59AM
i tried to corner him a hundred times. wala pa ring nangyari.. my fault? i just asked him if his girl was pregnant. then, the cold fight started there..
  1438    •reply    May-30-08@8:01AM
Say sorry to him nonstop sharo hindi yan maforgive ka.
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@8:03AM
i already did. and yes, he kept on ignoring my "sorry"..
  1438    •reply    May-30-08@8:07AM
BASTA TXT KA NA LNG 24/7 DUN sa kanya at kung makita mo cya mag sorry ka niya hindi ka naman matitiis nun kasi magkaibigan kayo diba. Kung magkaibigan talaga kaayo hindi ka dapat pahirapan ng ganyan.....
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@8:47PM
sana nga.
  bloody_hell    •reply    May-30-08@8:06AM
lol... never ending bah?
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@8:07AM
no, i will end it. i'll stop saying "sorry" and he'll regret it. haha.
authistic    •reply May 30, 2008 @ 8:41 AM
 
tomorrow    •reply May 30, 2008 @ 8:37 PM
 



siguro di pa ganun ka open yung mind nya after what had happened.., just give him time and space.., mapapatawad ka din nun..,
  legallyhappy    •reply    May-30-08@8:53PM
i hope so.
nienlyle    •reply Jun 1, 2008 @ 4:31 AM
 
time will heal... wait lang ..

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