thats very true but i hope too that some girls be smart pag dating sa pag ibig, oh well nakakabulag talaga ang love lalo na pag ung pana ni kupida sa mata tumama.

umm.. i think you're right.. for guys out there.. di naman sana sila ganun.. cause its unfair.. bakit yung mga guys nga ilang beses na silang nakipag-sex kung kani-kanino.. bakit ok lang.. pero.. kapag ang babae nawala ang virginity.. parang ang laswa-laswa mo na... ang baba na ng tingin ng mga guys..

it so sad to say, na yung bf ko ganun din.. kaya nga ako niligawan niya.. dahil di pa daw ako nagkaka-bf ng iba.. bakit ganun.. minsan tatanungin pa ko.. kung siya lang ba.. first kiss ko.. is that really important?? well, maswerte lang siya sakin..

pero sana.. di na sila ganun ka-unfair diba!!

well As long as i love the girl i will love her what ever her past and accept her with open arms. I don't care on what people say the most important is i Love that girl and i will fight anything just beacuase i her.

makasarili lang ang lalaking mag-iisip pa ng ganyan...itanong nya muna sa sarili nya kung wala pa rin ba siyang karanasan at virgin pa siya before hanapan ng virginity ang babaeng mahal niya...nung magmahal ba siya eh virginity ang dahilan at ginamit niya? di ba puso?...hay habang usapan pero sa di makaunawa period...

i think virginity is no longer a big issue nowadays nasa computer age na tayo and grabe ng influence ng west sa pinoys di ba, also if you really love the girl you should accept her for who she is.. (walang kasi... pero, dapat ganito)

alam mo khulet d lahat ng lalaki katulad mo... chaka para kasi sa kanila pag ung gf nla d na virgin ehh parng naapakan na ung pag kalalaki nila... bakit ganon ung mga guys... cguro namn d virginity ang habol ng lalaki sa babae para mahalin diba... bakit ng linigawan mo b sya virginity habol mo... un tlga ang pangit na ugali ng mga lalaki... were in fact ung mga lalaki ehh bata pa d na virgin kaya nga lng d malalaman ng mga girls kasi d namn nawawalan ng virginity ung guy eh... un ang nakaka unfair...

wether you like it or not, there is no absolute equality between men and women. Do not make the computer age as a defense to justify your contention. Do not also throw back the question, " How about you young man, are still virgin?" This is a foolish question. Even before Christ, Men is polygamist by nature. It is already a tradition. what makes a difference between this gender is measured by public expectation. Men and women had distinct personality in matters of facing the environment they live in.
I never questioned the statement that if the guy really loved you, he can accept you. But acceptance doesnt mean total respect. it is in virginity that this guy will have reverence and respect in you being a woman. ( ask someone about this; not your lover, not your suitor) Guys may only keep silent, but deep inside they mourn for that.
The time you were deflowered; it is either because you loved him too or because of your insecurities that submitting yourself in sex is a great appreciation for him.... and who else shared that appreciation? Sad but true! but only him. not even yourself. you dont even appreciated what you did. whats another problem that comes next... a blazing fire of insecurities that gradually burning your sense of value.
Remember, the mind of a man cannot easily change, altered and influenced by the changing world. And that is the reality.

i respect all ur opinion!!! as a girl we have to take care of our virginity cause i believe that the best thing we can give or gift to our husband is virginity.......for those guys acceptance is the best, even their girls are virgin or not!!!!!!! but for me i treasure my virginity and i shud have to take care of it .... cause un ang isa sa pinaka importante sa akin!!!!! i hope u understand and respect what im saying!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

korek! pero marami na rin sa mga guys ang open sa ganyan.. sabi nga ng bf ko, ok lang daw kahit hindi sya ang first... basta sya na yung last

tama...girls shud treasure their virginity!!!

virginity s not the issue- f u feel and regrets that u lost, ur a prisoner of man's behind power...paano ba un? u can't let go- hard to love again... just feel that u was betrayed!

virginity!!! diba sa iba importante talga yan... di pende lang sa tao yan... kung mahal ka talga nya matatanggap kanya....

cguro sa panahon nagun hindi n masyadong big issue ang virginity. at saka if the guy really loves u he'll accept kung ano ka.un lng pow

i have given my comment already kay raffie.... yeah... women shud know what shud they value much... its the only possession u cant buy being a women.. so dapat we girls ay di dapat magpakatanga sa pag-ibig... oh yes..we do love someone deeply... but we shud learn to learn to love and respect ourselves...

TAMA KA!!!para sa kin its not important as long that u love one another,pro its depend sa guy kung kaya ka nyang tanggapin.Pro kung talagang mahal ka nya tatanggapin ka nya kahit ano pa ang nakaraan mo...DI BA??when u lost it la kanang magagawa.JUST BE URSELF NA LANG INGGIT LANG CLA..hehehe

love is not blind they can see it but "they just ignore it".love is dangerous thing in earth kailangan mag ingat pro meron talagang mga nangyayaring mga bagay na kahit tayo mismo di natin alam kung bakit cause love is powerful.Kaya sabi pa nila if u love use ur head not ur heart...Pro follow ur heart if u really want to feel the true power of love,sabi pa nila ang sarap magmahal at mahalin.klangan pa ba ang virginty ng isang gurl para lang nya ma prove sa isang guy na mahal nya ito?pro powerful nga kaya bigay na lang nila kasi mahal daw nila.PRO ITANONG NYO SA KANYA KUNG NAGSISI BA SYA SA GINAWA NYANG YUN?NA IBIGAY ANG BAGAY NA YUN SA ISANG TAONG PINAKAMAMAHAL NYA?BAT DI NYO ITANONG?MALALAMAN NYO....

will i agree with the opinion, that virginity is very important for a woman. d naman masama maki pagrelasyon basta alam mong limitations mo at may pagpapahalaga ka sa sarili mo. ako, bago nag-asawa marami din akong naging bf, pero nagawa kong manatiling malinis hanggang kinasal sa asawa ko, masarap ang feeling na wlang paghihinayang ang asawa mo na ikaw ang pinakasalan nya dahil masaya sya at d sya nagsisi. Pero respeto din natin ung minsan nagkamali sa buhay, wla na rin ba silang pag-asa makahanap ng tapat at tatanggap sa kanila kahit may karanasan na? Depende naman yan sa babae...kung paano nya tratuhin sarili nya...

sana naman lahat ng comment nyo maging dilang anghel marami kasi sa inyo ang nagsasabi niyan pero siya naman ang gumagawa diba? mayroong mga ganung tao. ang pakikipag meet sa isang tao ay yung pakikipag kilala mo sa kanya ng totoo o kaya kung mahal mo ang ma me meet mo.tama yung sinabi niya na virginity is not the only reason for a happy life kasi di naman talaga kailangan yun eh. kung mahal mo ang isang tao matatanggap mo kung ano ang meron siya gaya ng di na siya virgin kung matatanggap mo yun ibig sabihin mahal na mahal mo talaga siya. marami naman talagang lalaki ang di makaintindi ngayun ewan ko ba kung bakit sa aming mga lalaki ilan nalang siguro ang may respeto sa babae. hindi na sila nahiya sa mga babaeng inaabuso nila na akala nila parang laruan lang ang mga babae sana sa mga guys na katulad ko mag isip isip kayo kung tama ba o mali ang ginagawa nyo. dapat nating i respeto ang mga babae kasi isa rin silang taong may pusot damdamin.kaya mga katulad kong matitino sana mahalin nyo ang inyong minamahal kahit ano pa sila kasi we don`t want any thing in love :-D

its just a matter of acceptance. Virginity is just a consolation a guy can get. WHat matters is u love the girl inspite of her flaws. KNowing a girl is a virgin, its a boost to a man's ego, yes, but it should not be the sole basis right? BE open minded.

U might miss the perfect girl for u just because ur looking after that.

agree ako sa'yo gambler..d dapat virginity ang maging basehan kung dapat bang mahalin ng isang lalake ang babae..pero dpat lng pag ingatan ng isang babae ang kanyang VIRGINITY..dahil kahit na masyado na tayong modern...IMPORTANTE PA DIN UN! :-p :-p

girl, importante yun para secure ka may may magseseryoso sa'yo at kagalang-galang ka. Its a precious gift to your husband.

damn! 2 doz peeps who are trying to judge ladies who were no longer virgin.. its not a bid issue of these days... for all we know khit we talked about LOVE.. guys should admit.. thats 2nd choice lang nila ang LOVE i know they are just wanting for SEX instead.. to doz peeps who are tyrin to put down non -virgin....fuck you! you should know them why that things happened before kayo mg jugge negatively.... you have no right.. coz in the end.. all people needs SEX in general..kaya nga may LOVE pra kasi the mean reason is you want to ave sex.. and make love 2 one person.. well just mind yourselves anway baka after today kayo.. na next victim u

for me virginity is not the issue here. as long as the guy love you, he needs to accept you as a whole (considering your past). i asked a man about this question he replied "virginity is a factor but not a big deal", "it's okay as long as i do not know the guy who got it".

mas marami na naman kasing open sa gnyang usapin. to think na m mga guys na m nkukuha clang gurlz na m mga asawa na, m mga anak na d b? cguro virginity is only a measurement or test to a guy, if he really do love the gurl.

THIS IS BULLSHIT! SIGURO VIRGIN KA PA.. SIGURO WALANG GUSTONG MAKIPAG SEX SAYO.. ASAN ANG REALITY NA SINASABI MO? Hindi ka siguro marunong magmahal.. or maybe nasakatan ka na ng husto in your past realtionship.. GROW UP MAN! DON'T BE NARROW MINDED!!

THIS IS BULLSHIT! SIGURO VIRGIN KA PA.. SIGURO WALANG GUSTONG MAKIPAG SEX SAYO.. ASAN ANG REALITY NA SINASABI MO? Hindi ka siguro marunong magmahal.. or maybe nasakatan ka na ng husto in your past realtionship.. GROW UP MAN! DON'T BE NARROW MINDED!!

IM SORRI.. PARA YUN KAY RAFIE.. HINDI PARA SAYO BABY_18.. UULIT ULITINKO... PARA YUN KAY RAFIE...

im not afraid to say that i am no longer a virgin.. but for your info, my boyfriend respects me and loves me so much.. we are getting married next month.. and besides.. diba mas masarap mahalin ang lalaking tanggap ka kung ano ka man at sino ka man...

for me,everybody must be responsible for what they are doing with their lives..if some1 is ready enough to engage into this kind of thing,then go for it as long he/she will not regret his/her decisions..tayo lang naman ang nakakaalam kung ano ang maka2buti sa atin diba? but its sad to say that in our culture,this kind of mentality is far from the acceptance of the society..nandun pa din yung pagiging traditional ng mga pinoy..but eventually this will change naman siguro.basta always put in mind that the decisions that we make is our responsibility..

yup!!! tma ung mga cnb u i agree, sa pnahon ngaun d n tlga msyadong im4tnte ung virginity. bsta mhal m osng tao ok n un at bsta msaya k s knya. bt mrmi ngang guy'z n nag hahanap ng isng virgin n babae, eh... smantalng once n nging gf n nya gusto nya n mkuha ung girl or let's say makipag sex. tapos pag nlman nila n may experience n ung girl sa fst bf nag iiba n ung ugali. hnd b nila n icip n cla rin nman ung may dahilan kung bkt mraming girls n ang hnd virgin. tapos lkas ng loob nila n mag hanap ng isng babaeng virgin. nakakatawa kung iicipin db!!

sabi kase ni bevs magcomment dw ako may nabasa ko dati..women go to bed just to make the man say i love u...while men say i love u just to make women go to be ehhh ala lang ano bang macocomment ko d2...virginity is still important 22o un no doubt about it but then nowadays mejo hot item n un pre-marital sex...there are pros and cons sa lahat ng bagay men and women shld be cautious un lng cguro and dey shld be prepared sa outcome ng ggwin nila

dami ngcomments ahh! cguro d kau virgin!!! jejeje aminin!!! datz life!!! sana my mgintertain ng comments ko taz sagutin nya tanong k!!!

cge ashly sagutin kita..ako im married wid one baby boy..kaya ako nagcomment not becoz of my virginity juz wanna share my opinion and "comment"..and not becoz nagcomment susme ehh di na virgin ehh d kw di rin pala kc nagpost ka ng comment eh.... .... just asking lang din

Tinkerbell,

Love can exist without sex. I mean love out of the bond of marriage. But if we are speaking of Love under the sanctity of marriage, sex is indespensable since it is an obligation for pleasure or procreation to be shared by both of you.

I do not make any statement, that a woman who is not a virgin shall be condemned.every woman deserves respect but the degree, amount and weight of such respect lies in the mind of the person dealing with such woman. We show respect to all women but we cannot make equal respect to all of them since there is distinction between the woman herself and the men himself who showed that respect.
to tell you, I'm not a narrow minded person,I'm just a critical minded person who studied every details in the changes of the society. Those narrow minded are those person who will just accept the thing as it is, those who simply adopt,who simply assent to the ideas of other person. Why dont you close your eyes and reflect if this changes in the society are to be taken as it is and we all indeed unite to do and think the same thing.
Its true that if your man really loves you, virginity is not really the issue because what is more important is how responsible she is in building the family life. But, sorry to tell you, "DI NA USO ANG VIRGIN" this is the issue. I cannot transcend to the issue. We can make a lot of justification inorder to correct our fault, we can have a lot of loopholes just to make a valid excuse, only if we will not stick to the topic here.
our topic deals with the unpopularity of virgins......... period! Why have we come up to marriage life? The topic is visibly dealing with relationship out of marriage. Kumbaga, The answer is not responsive to the question. If you want open a topic that deals with women who are not virgins during their marriage life.

The reality? If you are not virgin already, So be it! But its much better that you have preserved it. Nothing changes my love, only my expectation. I do love you unconditionally. Sayang.......... pero ok lng. Mahal pa rin kita eh. tanggap kita.

Reflect to that statement
then share it here.

RAFIE

ummm...very good thinking. its true as they say...but the thing is there are still other guys who value the love more than virginity kaya for the girls out there, hope is still there, ok?

Lets just admit it, our opinion here will depend sa kung ano ang klagayan nating mga girls , virgin or not. Kpag virgin ka, sympre u will definitely say, it is important to preserved it. But if ur not, iba na ang mgiging opinion mo, u will stand to the fact that virginity is no longer an issue nowadays since u urself is no longer a virgin, meaning, ur justifying why. But whether we admit it or not, we know in ourselves that it is important, ngkktaon lng na kailangan natin i justfy kung ano tau ngaun. I myself admit i'm no longer intact, but i still believe it is important. Yan lng nmn kc ang npanghhwakan nting mga girls eh. Not only bcoz guys prefer that but also bcoz kyaman n nting maituturing yan. Kung db importante, why we mourn kpg nwala db? But it should not be the only basis para i measure ng isang guy ung pgmmhal nya sa girl. I believe she can still gain the same respect a man gives to a virgin woman. Its just a matter of acceptance.

all has been said :-p

virgin or not basta nagmamahalan kayo

Pa SHARE naman...

Yeah i AGREE...

I have that kind of experience i met someone special at sa kanya ko nakita yung d ko nakikita at nararamdaman sa iba. I fall inlove with her we often met until the time that she disclosed the truth that she's not a VIRGIN anymore. I was shock seems i wish to go back from the past to let it not happened to her but i can't. I was really bothered by what i had found out. And she attempt not to pursue co'z we are opposite im a VIRGIN and she's NOT. I find it hard but the only thing i knows she's the one that my speaks. I ask myself what should i do...and decide to accept her as she is. Later on she disclosed that not only once but lot of times. I can't help my tears...SYEMPRE UMIYAK... Senti na kasi baka bumaha sa PC ko. Sabi nya baka pag may time na horny sya at d ko kayang pagbigyan...sa totoo lng kinabahan ako pero sabi ko BAHALA na Unfortunately d nag work ang relationship dami kasing dapat isa alaalang pero hanggang ngayon I MISSED HER SO MUCH...kaso lng kailangan ko nang tanggapin na wala na sya. Pag ibig nga naman HAHAMAKIN ang LAHAT masunod ka lamang.

BASTA LOVE CONQUERS ALL....

comments ko pr s lahat , pr s akin di mhlaga ang virginity s relationship or pagaasawa ang gusto ko magaling s oh yeah

yeah right!! as for me, I dont care if a girl is still a virgin in terms of sex or not, it doesnt matter...basta for me as long as she has the qualifications like sweet, caring and honest, she's the perfect girl for me...wanting a girl who's still a virgin is a demand we guys might not end up with, kasi its unfair for the na i-expect nating virgin sila pero tayo we have already engaged in so many sexual escapades,..isn't that unfair? besides sex is just a part of the whole love process...its the personality that still counts for me....

just a thought: would u know a person's performance in being a virgin at all? it lies in the state of mind of a person. After all, a guy dumps a girl not because she's a virgin or not, but her performance sucks or he doesnt care for her at all. Cheers evryone!

yah right!!!!!!!!!!tama yan!!!!!! tama yan!!!!!!!1

i think those who value virginity are virgins pero yung mga nagsasabi eh hindi or kung virgin man sya eh malapit na yung mawala lol

bevs, issa & inche_edsel, this is my reply sa inyong PRE-MARITAL SEX: Kasi baka hindi naman umakyat ito eh, kaya complete ko muna.

Ang pre-marital sex ay considered na yan sa pre-marital relationship. Ako, really favor with that para makilala mo ng husto ang taong pakakasalan mo. Para masabi mo after how many years of marriage na di ka nagkamali ng pagpakasal sa asawa mo. Dahil makikilala mo lang ng husto ang isang tao, kung makasama mo sya sa isang bubong for a certain time. So ma-evaluate mo ang sarili nyo kung kaya nyong magmeet halfway para sa inyong mga indifferences. Mahirap ng umatras kapag kasal na kayo. Kahit di man kayo matuloy magpakasal, di ka dapat mahiya kahit di ka na virgin, you lost it out of love, you have to be even proud of yourself at marunong kang magmahal. Some very sensible men appreciates that. So for me, virginity is really not a big deal. Bakit ako, ng pinakasalan ako ng Ex ko, virgin pa man rin ako, eh bakit iniwan nya rin ako?
but I'm cheering for that, dahil hindi ako ang nawalan, kundi sya.

like a virgin.. touch for the very first time!!!!

it's ok if you're not a virgin or not.. basta,if you wanna have sex,do it with the right person use protections..para di ka makakuha ng STD or AIDS..ok ba pre??

I have a t-shirt that says...I'M A VIRGIN..but this is an old t-shirt

tHE gUYs WhO tAKeS vIRgINity a bIg iSSue. uSUallY yAN uNG mAHIliG. hEHehE...

OK lang ang hindi Virgin as long na hindi mo maiimagine ang ginawa nila. Madali kasing sabibihin modern na ngayon, etc. pero pag pumasok sa isip mo na may nakapatong sa mahal mo tapos nag pupump o kaya e hawak hawak ng mahal mo yung private part nung other guy o may worst scene pa di ba? paanong hindi iinit ang ulo mo. Lalo pa nga mas matindi kung hindi mo nakita talaga dahil mas wild ang iisipin mo.

depende yun sa reason kung bakit nawala yung virginity, usually dahil sa sobrang pagmamahal sa guy kaya nagagawa ng babaeng ipagkaloob ang sarili nila pro kung ang babae katulad nung nasa rated 18 I dont think na igagalang sila ng lalake, oo nga at computer age na ngayon pero dapat irespeto natin ang mga sarili natin, lets face it na may mga babae na kahit sino pinapatulan makaraos lang, so depende sa situation yun, may mga lalaking kahit ganun ang babae minamahal pa rin at handang pakasalan ang babae pero yung babae pa rin ang nagloloko so it all depends na sa nature ng tao yun

OK lang ang hindi Virgin as long na hindi mo maiimagine ang ginawa nila. Madali kasing sabibihin modern na ngayon, etc. pero pag pumasok sa isip mo na may nakapatong sa mahal mo tapos nag pupump o kaya e hawak hawak ng mahal mo yung private part nung other guy o may worst scene pa di ba? paanong hindi iinit ang ulo mo. Lalo pa nga mas matindi kung hindi mo nakita talaga dahil mas wild ang iisipin mo.

waLa Lng no ComMent Sari SaRilinG opiNion kc LaHat ng OpiniO NiNio My PoInT...

I RESPECT ALL D COMMENTS... SA AKIN LNG IT DOESNT MATTER VIRGIN O NOT VIRGIN AS LONG U LUV D PERSON AND U CNT TURN BCK D TIME NMAN EHHH MASKI NO PAH GAGAWIN MO HNDI MO NA MAIBABALIK ANG PGKA VIRGIN NG BABAE. AND WER ON A HIGH TECH NA! DI MO NA MASASABI NA MARAMI PANG VIRGIN NA GURL NGAUN SAD 2 SAY BT TRUE.... WE HVE 2 ADMIT DAT NOBODYS PERFCT..... WE RESPECT EACH ODER.

alm nyo, ang virginity nmn ay nsa s inyo rin yan kung anu ang definition nyo sa word na virgin.. some pipol think na pag virgin ka pa, ur out!! in short di ka "in"!sa iba nmn ang tingin nila sa mga di na virgin eh mababa.. easy to get.. actually nasa sa tao nmn un eh.. kung nwala man un out of love then ok lang db?! basta ang importante eh no regrets!!

yah ur ryt porneacridous... i agree wd dat!!!! bsta la lng regrtes after all and u knw wat ur doin' and u'll be hapi its veri ok!!!!!!!!

hay naku!!..

no comments buhay nyo yan la ako mgawa kc d tyo pareho ng prinsipyo

basahin mo thread ko sa politics and issues.Virginity ang topic!

no comment!!
buhay nyo yan...basta, ako birhen pa..

for me guys are rily unfair knukuha nla ang isang bagay na mahalaga but den iiwan nila at hahanapsila ng malinis uli thats a shit unfair tlga boys dey are not equal..

anong pipiliin mo virgin nga....pero the moment you had sex nalaman mo na di sya pwedeng magkaanak o yung di na virgin pero mabibigyan ka ng jr.

syempre dun na ko sa di na virgin...

GETS MO!!!

virginity>>>uso yun nun stone age..eh computer age na tyo..so who cares kung di na virgin yun girl important yun heart mo nag beat para sa kanya di ba.. : at importante eh maligaya ka sa babae na yan..bakit marami dyan nag asawa ng virgin after few years separated na.asan yun virginity sa point na yun..basta ..virgin not virgin not important sakin..i care about love ...

ummm may mga guys kc tlga na sobrang galang na ayaw nila ng d sila ang maka una sa girl nila waheheh but sa panahaon natin ngaun parang d na usu ang virginity

y do some people give such a big deal on a piece of tissue that is broken?

kuha niyo? i just dont get it.

hay nku masyado na pong old fashion ang usapang virginity,sa pnahon ngaun ang "in" bkit virgin ka pag!!!???

di na important virginity... hu sez so?

basta ako meron pa nyan!!! asteg!!

Hay nakoh!
para san pat virgin k kung d rin lng tru ung filings nyu sa isat isa, or vive versa/

ok lang hindi virgin.. kung mahal mo bakit hindi pwede.. the usual na sinasabi ng tao... sa akin hindi naman cya important, pero bonusna yun... heheheh!!! ang mga babae usually takot na wala ng magmamahal sa kanila dahil di na cla virgin is not totally true sa case ngayon... sa una lng yan.. when they get over the guy, the relationship... and moved on na? di na issue yung virginity na yan... peace!!!

yep korek k dyan...

Hell no di ganyan ang mga guys ah!!!

well 4 as a boy..ok lng poh khit my 3ng anak pah!

nagkgs2 kna b s mas old sau?!aq opo..kea ok lng kht virgin or not as long as we love each other..i thank u..

tama k lheyomhar! lyk me, 17yrsold plang niging gnya n situation ko! no qualification in love!!!

pero masakit tlga icpn!!!! unfair tlga ang buhay!!!

i think it still does. objective tayo. not all people can accept that fact... besides, masasabi lang naman talaga na unimportant ang virginity ESPECIALLY to those people who lost it, ayt? i mean, it still does to me and mah peeps...

aq nmn bsta mhal ko eh
220 un at
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