as i read through the comments to gurl's article i was sadden on how our civilization has created us... here are a few of my observations:

... it's amazing how we quickly judge what is right and what is wrong, what is good and bad.
... we judge as if we have personally talk with god and he has specifically tell you what is right and what is wrong, what is good and evil.
... it's astounding how we sterotype god, a god who punishes if we do not follow his will.
... it's marvelous how we all live our life in fear, the fear of eternal condemnation if we go against what the god we know wants.
... and so on.

our concept of right and wrong was something bestowed to us by our parents, grandparents, and all the people who took a stake in our growing. their own concept of right and wrong was handed to them by the generation before them... and we believe that this is the absolute truth.

why is then same sex marriage is allowed in some parts of the world. would this mean that their god is different from our god? how lucky they are to have a god that understands that 2 people of the same gender can really fall in love with each other. that their truth is not our truth... how lucky they are to have seen the light that love cut across gender and preferences.

i am in this type of relationship... i will not say its right, moreso, i will not say its wrong. for me there is no right or wrong, there is no good and evil. our experiences are merely states of being that we need to go through for us to remember who we really and from there do what we are here to do... which is simply to re-create. we are created in the image and likeness of god, therefore we are gods... and how can god be wrong.

there are no accidents and there are no coincidences, everything happens for a purpose. this i always remember. same sex relationship happens for a purpose. no one can discount the fact that two people in love create an aura of peace, contentment and happiness... exactly our definition of god... similar to our concept of heaven. how can anyone claim that its wrong, its bad, its evil...

this is where i am now, a same sex relationship that let both of us feel that we are in heaven. we will be on our 20th month on 22nd together. our forever is here and now... tomorrow may not see us still in each others arms but at least we had our forever here and now... true that it has been a roller coaster ride but that too is part of the process of remembering who we really are... that too is part of our creation... we are creating our experiences so that we can remember who we really are.

we have seen, we have read, we have witnessed, and some may have even experienced devastating heterosexual relationships... we have heard of, we have read, we have witnessed and some may even be experiencing a beautiful homosexual relationship... and yet all of us still continue to believe that men are only for women... and that men to men (M2M) and female to female (F2F) relationship is not possible... we have been fooled by the generations before us to make us believe that their truth is absolute...i tell you now and i will tell you again and again, the only truth is the truth the comes from your heart and this truth will set us all free... we maybe created in the likeness of god but always remember that each of us is unique, thus, my truth may not be your truth, your truth may not be my truth... simply saying it, you do not have the right to say that gurl, me and the others in similar boat are evil and will go to hell because we are into same sex relationship... you just do not know how happy we are to be where we are, we may even be happier than you are... but i do not judge you.

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